7 Tips For A Successful First Date

7 Tips For A Successful First Date

Listen up ladies. As someone who works with men on a consistent basis in the field of relationships, I know exactly what many of the most quality guys out there are looking for on a first date.

In fact, most of us are fairly easy when it comes to being impressed on a first date. Men aren’t that complicated, it’s just a matter of understanding the simple things that make us happy.

So without further adieu, here are 7 tips for having a successful first date with the men you meet online:

1. Smile.

Even the best of us sometimes get a little bit nervous when meeting a stranger for the first time. Smiling a lot is not only a quality that we are very used to, but will make us feel warm and welcome, which in turn will make us feel completely comfortable. It should go without saying that the more comfortable we feel, the better the date will be.

2. Dress to impress.

When it comes to women, men love a little good old-fashioned femininity. Throw on some heels, put your best dress on, spray on that perfume, and get the sex appeal going. Men are very visual and this will make us take notice.

3. Learn to listen.

On average, women speak thousands of more words per day then men. This is fine when chatting with the gals, but on a date, learn the art of listening. Treat the date the same way you would treat a job interview. Aim to speak approximately fifty percent of the time.

4. Get a little physical.

I’m not talking about going home with us, or even kissing at the end of the first date. I’m referring to touching us just a little bit in small ways. Let us know you are into us by grabbing our arm every now and then when we make a joke, or throwing your head into our shoulder as you laugh. Show us that we aren’t just nice guys that you are interested in being friends with, but potential romantic partners that you can see a future with.

5. Don’t be over aggressive.
While touching your date in small ways is a good thing, being too aggressive is a definite mistake. Sure we may act as if we like it, and probably do in the moment. But the next day we will be wondering if you are like that with every guy, which may just make us prematurely eject from the courtship. A kiss at the end of the night is fine, but leave it at that on a first date!

6. This is not an interview.

Don’t quiz us on a date as if we need to pass a test. We already graduated high school. Date conversation should be light, fun, and consist of questions that show you are merely trying to get to know us better. It should not feel like we are on the hot seat.

7. Go with the flow.

There is no bigger turn off than a woman who is picky about every little detail of the date. Showing that you are someone who could hang in every situation with no problems, reveals a lot about your character. We will leave the date feeling as if there is a world of possibilities and adventure in the future, not as if we will always have to work around your demanding personality.

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