In life there are simply some questions that much though you think you want to ask them, you DON’T need or want the answers to. Here are few to beware of when you’re having sex, or considering having sex, with a new partner:
1. How many partners have you been with?
- As long as you know whether or not your partner has a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and are taking proper precautions to prevent STIs and pregnancy, this one is none of your business. Let’s face it, there is no “right” answer so why bother asking the question?
- As long as you know whether or not your partner has a sexually transmitted infection (STI) and are taking proper precautions to prevent STIs and pregnancy, this one is none of your business. Let’s face it, there is no “right” answer so why bother asking the question?
2. How long has it been since you had sex?
- Sometimes people who haven’t had sex in a while will offer up this information voluntarily to indicate a need to move slowly or to express concerns that they are “out of practice” and require a bit of extra patience and/or attention. That’s fine! But this isn’t a question that has any bearing on your current situation otherwise. Again, is there a “right” answer? Probably not.
3. Am I the best you ever had or at least better than your….?
- Asking for comparisons with previous sexual partners is a deadly minefield just waiting to blow up in your face. Think about it this way…if your partner says yes then you have to wonder if it’s true or not because who in their right mind is going to say “no”? This is a question better left unasked, because unless he/she is a consummate actor, you’ll know if your partner enjoyed him/herself. Plus, the beauty of sex is that practice may not make perfect but it does make for a lot of fun!
- Asking for comparisons with previous sexual partners is a deadly minefield just waiting to blow up in your face. Think about it this way…if your partner says yes then you have to wonder if it’s true or not because who in their right mind is going to say “no”? This is a question better left unasked, because unless he/she is a consummate actor, you’ll know if your partner enjoyed him/herself. Plus, the beauty of sex is that practice may not make perfect but it does make for a lot of fun!
Before you ask your partner anything, ask yourself this: Do you really want to know the truth or are you looking to hear the “right” answer? If it is the former, then ask away. If you are looking to hear only what you want to hear, consider why you want this information. Then think twice before you ask…you may be doing more damage than good.
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